Friday, May 9, 2014

Chapter 2.

It's not cool to break someone's heart, you know. It's not cunning to cheat someone into believing that your world revolves around them. And it's definitely not human to be an asshole.

If you're reading a lot of Elle or other online articles; throw them in the trash. There is no way an article will help you understand a woman. Here's the story from a woman's point of view:

If she goes all out on your birthday and you see her hair neatly made, her awkward stance, her new hair color and some slick clothes; baby, she's smitten all over you already. She's dressing up for you and representing you because, hey, she's your girl. She has every right to do so.

She's not asking you to grab her hand and attend the whole birthday with her, she's simply there for the respect she deserves, the casual glances you might throw her way, the jokes that you, as friends, share. She's here for you, she's yours. Don't try to take it casually and just let her be another guest. Don't diss her efforts and do not try to act like the smart ass most men are. Recognize her, introduce her, respect her.

So if you're letting go of someone who is making an effort for you, unlike the new chicky you have by your arm who won't stick to a son of a bitch like you for even 6 weeks, let alone 6 years, okay. Okay, as in 'get your head out of your ass'. Respect a woman because she puts up with the horrible shit you throw her way. Just because of the number of years that have passed. Do not break her heart.

How to mend a broken heart, you guys? My friend is facing some problem in her relationship and I don't know how to make her feel better!

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